Hamare muashre mein jahan ek taraf jadeediyat (modernism) ka dore hai, wahin doosri taraf kuch aisi pukaar sunai deti hain jo dil ko hila kar rakh deti hain. Haal hi mein social media par ek 24 sala larki, “Fatima” (farzi naam) ka ek message viral ho raha hai jis mein wo bari sadgi aur umeed ke sath kehti hain: “Main 24 saal ki hun, parlour ka kaam karti hun, koi Allah ka nek banda nikaah kare.”
Ye jumla sunne mein shayad aam lage, lekin is ke peeche ek beti ki himmat, us ki pakizah khuahish aur hamare muashre ki talkh haqiqat chupi hui hai.
1. Mehnat Kash Aurat: Ek Izzat Dar Kirdar
Fatima ne apne message mein sab se pehle apne kaam ka zikr kiya hai. Wo parlour mein kaam karti hain, yani wo ek mehnat kash larki hain jo apna bojh khud utha rahi hain. Hamare muashre mein aksar log working women ko ajeeb nazar se dekhte hain, lekin Fatima ne ye sabit kiya ke halaal rozi kamana koi gunah nahi balkay izzat ki baat hai. Ek larki jo sara din mehnat kar ke apna aur apne ghar walon ka pet palti hai, wo kisi bhi “nek bande” ke liye ek behtareen shareek-e-hayat (life partner) sabit ho sakti hai.
2. Nikaah: Gunah Se Bachne Ka Rasta
Aaj ke दौर mein jahan fitne har taraf hain, ek jawan larki ka khulay aam nikaah ki khuahish zahir karna us ki parsaai aur deendaari ki nishani hai. Fatima ne kisi galat raste ka intikhab karne ke bajaye “Nikaah” ka rasta chuna jo ke Sunnat-e-Rasool (S.A.W) hai. Ye is baat ka sabot hai ke wo apni zindagi ko Allah ke bataye hue tareeqe par guzarna chahti hain.
3. “Allah Ka Nek Banda” – Is Se Kya Murad Hai?
Fatima ne kisi ameer, gari wale ya bank balance wale shakhs ki shart nahi rakhi, balkay unhon ne “Allah ke nek bande” ki talash ki hai. Is ka matlab ye hai ke unhein ek aise sathi ki zaroorat hai jo:
- Un ki izzat kare.
- Un ke kaam ki qadar kare.
- Deen aur dunya ko sath lekar chale.
- Dukh sukh mein un ka sath nibha sake.
4. Muashre Ki Zimmedari Aur Hamara Rawaiya
Jab koi larki is tarah nikaah ki darkhuast karti hai, to muashre mein do tarah ke log samne aate hain. Kuch log mazaq urate hain aur kuch log ise tanqeed ka nishana banate hain. Lekin asal sawal ye hai ke kya hum ne nikaah ko itna mushkil bana diya hai ke betiyon ko social media par aakar pukaarna par raha hai?
Jahez ki lanat, baradri ka chakkar aur “log kya kahenge” jaisi rasmon ne nikaah ko mushkil aur gunah ko sasta kar diya hai. Fatima ki pukaar dar-asal un sab logon ke liye ek sabaq hai jo rishta tay karte waqt sirf paisa aur bank balance dekhte hain.
5. Nikaah Ko Asaan Banayein
Islam humein sagi se nikaah karne ka dars deta hai. Fatima jaisi larkiyan jo khud kafil (independent) hain aur kaam karna janti hain, wo ghar ko chalane mein apne shohar ka hath bata sakti hain. Ek mard ko chahiye ke wo aisi mukhlish aur mehnat kash larki ki qadar kare jo numayish ke bajaye ek ba-izzat ghar basana chahti hai.
6. Social Media Par Rishta: Ehtiyat Zaroori Hai
Agarchay Fatima ka irada nek hai, lekin internet ki dunya mein har tarah ke log maujood hain. Jo bhi “Allah ka nek banda” is pukaar par labbaik kahe, usay chahiye ke wo poori imandari se aur sharai tareeqe se Fatima ke ghar walon se rabta kare. Dhoka dahi aur mazaq se parhez karna chahiye kyunke ye kisi ki zindagi ka sawal hai.
Ikhtitami Alfaz (Conclusion)
Fatima ki pukaar sirf ek larki ki pukaar nahi hai, balkay ye un hazaron larkiyon ki numayindagi karti hai jo ba-izzat tareeqe se apna ghar basana chahti hain. Hamein chahiye ke hum aise rishton ko sahara dein aur nikaah jaisi pakiza cheez ko asaan banayein.
Allah Ta’ala se dua hai ke wo Fatima ko aur un jaisi tamam betiyon ko behtareen aur nek shareek-e-hayat naseeb farmaye jo un ki qadar kare aur unhein dunya o akhirat ki khushiyan de. (Ameen)
